To The Girls In High School

When you’re in high school, you think it’ll never end. You think that you’ll be friends with these people for the rest of your life. You think you’ll marry your first love. You think you’ll always have more time. But the truth is, you probably won’t be friends with these people for much after high school. You probably won’t marry your first love. And you don’t always have more time. High school is over in a blink of eye, literally. One day you’re walking in a freshmen, and the next you’re walking a senior for the last time. And the […]

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Commitments

I’d be lying if I said I’ve never wanted to feel love from someone else. If be lying if I said I didn’t have a person in mind. I’d be lying if I said that when I see people out on dates and I’m sitting alone, that I don’t want that. Here’s the thing, I may want it, but it scares me. It scares me to the core of my being to think that I could commit myself completely to someone else. That’s why I don’t go on dates, or even have a boyfriend(s), because truthfully the idea of commitment […]

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Who Am I? Who Are you?

Who am I? A couple weeks ago I was talking to a friend and she asked me who I was. I started to list off my accomplishments, graduating high school, moving out, and she stopped me and said “no, not what have you done, but who are you.” And honestly that got my mind thinking. Who am I? Sounds simple, but truthfully answering that question is hard. So here’s what I came up with. Who am I? 1. I’m honest. When I say I’m honest, I’m not saying i haven’t told my fare share of lies, because my mom would […]

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To My Bullies

To the girls who made my life hell, but always ┬ámade me realize how great I actually am. I was the target because I was different. I was short, and frumpy. I didn’t have any real style, and basically made myself the target. Even though back then I didn’t think it was a good thing, now looking back I can really see how much I changed over the years. Thanks to y’all I grew a thick skin. Seriously now the bulling wouldn’t bother me a bit. Thanks to y’all I truly realized that being a little different wasn’t a bad […]

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Tips For Living Alone

I’ve always been kind of a loner, well okay, not a loner but I enjoy being alone, in my company. It never bothered me to do my own thing, never. So at 20 years old, I made the decision to move out my mom’s home, and live on my own. Moving out for the first time is incredibly scary, basically marking that you’re an adult. So imagine moving out for the first time, and living by yourself. It’s actually quite terrifying to think about. I scoured┬áthe internet (pinterest) for tips on living alone, I even looked up videos (youtube). Now […]

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