To The Girls Who Are Feeling Lost And Confused

Have you felt like you just don’t know what you’re doing? Or that you can’t figure out what you are supposed to be doing? We all have, myself included. With the fact that I’m turning 23 next month, my life seems to be so turned upside down. On one hand, I still have friends trying to get through college, others who have graduated, others who are getting married and starting families and some that are kind of like me. Lost, confused, concerned with where the heck our lives are headed. I’ve been feeling like I’m not doing enough, I’m not […]

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To The Girls: Who Don’t Know What Love Is

I’m not really sure how I’m fully supposed to talk about this because I’m not really sure what love is either. Sure, I had boyfriends in high school, who I said that I loved. But did I really love them? Would I have ever said to death till us part? I’m not sure. But regardless, since I’m not really sure what love is, this isn’t only to you, but it’s to me as well. Sometimes, it’s scary. There is all this pressure to be in love. It’s everywhere and I mean everywhere. You can’t go to the store without seeing […]

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To The Girls Who Are Naturally Happy

In the recent post of this series I have talked about¬†the girls who love easily¬†(click right over there for more info). When I wrote that post, I already had this idea in my head. Because whereas I love incredibly easily, I also am incredibly happy. I’ve been told so many times, that I’m always smiling or laughing. I am genuinely happy, I’ve always been. My personality just doesn’t allow me to stay mad or upset for very long. Now, when I say that I don’t mean that I’ve never spent time sulking (because I totally have) but I mean that, […]

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To The Girls Who Love Easily

I’ve found myself on the end of heartbreak quite a bit. My dad left when I was a preteen. My first step dad teased and taunted me into being so insecure. . My second step-dad turned into a monster that I couldn’t even look at. My first boyfriend broke my heart, and my second one cheated on me. I’ve had friends lie to me, abuse my kindness, and back stab me so many times, I’m sure there are scares. My own grandmother made me feel like I wasn’t good enough because I wouldn’t be what she wanted. I’ve been threw […]

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To The Girls Struggling With Self Doubt

For so long, I was one of those girls. I struggled so much with self-doubt, because of my surroundings. I was told that my opinions, thoughts and feelings were insignificant. And it really took a toll on me. Over the past two years, I’ve been really trying to get out of this self-doubt phase that I had been since, well, since probably middle school. Yep, my self-doubt went all the way back to when I was only 11 years old. And these self-doubt probably changed over the years, but they were still there. I won’t lie and say that I’m […]

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